How beating affects your child

How beating affects your child

This is how your child feels when you are violating him. Horror, trauma, and moral pain that predominate physical pain, not to mention the physical damage caused by beating to children. We assure you that nothing your child may do deserves to be punished by violence, and in this article, we will show you why you should not hit your children at all.
What happens when you hit your child?

How beating affects your child

Well, your child screamed or cried until you lost your patience, or entered the room to see that it ruined it completely, lost your temper, I was exhausted from a difficult day or angry at your boss, and the riot of your child was the straw that divided the camel's back, so I attacked him and hit him

You may think that a slap on the butt may not be as painful as sticking, but you should know that it causes the same psychological harm to the child.

How is your child affected by beatings?

Beating or slapping is considered a means by some parents to discipline or modify the unacceptable behavior of children.This punishment may temporarily succeed in stopping certain behavior as a result of the trauma suffered by the child.However, children with short-term memory will forget why they were beaten and remember the same beating. Behavior again only if they are threatened with beatings, and this has a much more serious psychological effects, studies have shown that children who receive violent education tend to have their educational attainment at the university after they get rid of the violent restrictions of parents, and their practical achievement after that much less, Also displays multiplication or Abuse your child for anxiety disorder, depression or even post-traumatic stress syndrome if the beating is severe.

How is your child's relationship affected by beating?

Your child trusts you more than anyone else, and depends on you in his food, drink, sleep and diet from any danger.If you start beating him you will become one of the causes of danger, and time after time will lack a sense of security around you, and gradually lose confidence in you until you do not exist.

What are the alternatives to beating?

First of all, beating is not acceptable. Here are some tips so you don't lose your temper around your kids:

    Take a break: If you feel so exhausted that you may lose control, leave your children in a safe place and stay away from them for 10 minutes

    Take a deep breath and count for ten before you hit your child

    Use acceptable and nonviolent punishment techniques, such as punishment angle, banning games, or watching TV.

    Make strict laws and abide by you before children.

    Their sleep schedule is your time of rest.

    Make routines for your family to meet the dates of food should be uniform for all, dates of play and study etc.

    Keep in touch with your children and let them understand that unacceptable behaviors are prohibited at home as they are outside.

    Be role models. Children learn a lot of behaviors from adults.

Statistics indicate that most parents in Arab countries have beaten their children at least once. In 2016, the UAE enacted the Wadima Child Rights Act, which prohibits caregivers from being ostracized, homeless, neglected, habitually left unsupervised or monitored, abandoned, mentored, non-affiliated, or not affiliated with educational institutions. Whoever violates the provisions of the two articles shall be punished by imprisonment or a fine not less than AED 5000. It is also prohibited to subject the child to torture or assault on his physical integrity or to engage in any act involving cruelty that would affect the child's emotional, psychological, mental or moral balance, and shall be punished with imprisonment and a fine of not less than AED 50,000 or one of these penalties.