Educational backwardness
When we talk about education, we talk about the future of the nation and its men coming.The good generation, which is subjected to good education makes a nation of values and morals, and the corrupt generation that is not subject to education or subject to corrupt education is the result of a shaky and corrupt nation suffering from educational backwardness that corrupts its roots.
Young boys arise in us .. What was his father returned
Young boys arise in us .. What was his father returned
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The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) says: "What we shall behave to the father of his son is better than good manners". He also says peace be upon him (because the man disciplines his son is better for him than to give charity.
The difference between education and care:
Most of our Arab families today do not raise, but they care, and the difference between the two is great.Education is a great task to instill principles, values, cultures and behavior modification. Care is about caring for physical aspects such as clothing, food, housing, schoolwork, skills, role models and interests. Something in front of raising the soul, mind and soul.
Where are our families from planting the faith and building a good citizen?
I accept to self Vstkml virtues, you are not self-human body.
The importance of education:
Some view children as having small minds and not understanding, generating much neglect and upbringing.
They missed that the most important stages of building personality and the establishment of values is the childhood, which needs to be educated and continuous and serious and thoughtful that the child grabs all that arrives and tries to store.
Suffice it to know that the child in his sixth year learns 5000 vocabulary annually while the adult learns only 150 new vocabulary!
Manifestations of educational backwardness:
1) Bad manners in young people and adolescents:
It begins with the rights of children to their parents and then the lack of respect for the little brother of his big brother and then the rebellion of teenagers to all around them and not responding to any advice.
It may even go beyond that, you see the small insults who is larger than him and does not assess his weight, and perhaps even get insults and cursing and beating !!
Imam Bukhari narrated to us a great talk in the literature of Ibn Omar, may Allah be pleased with them, a young son of Ibn Omar (the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him one day to his companions: that the tree does not drop the leaf and it is like a believer so they told me what? They started to mention trees in the desert).
Abdullah said and signed in myself that the palm and I saw Abu Bakr and Omar do not speak so I thought to speak or say something Omar said (when he later knew that his son had known the tree and did not speak literature): (Because I said I love me so and so)
Look at the literature of Ibn Omar, may Allah be pleased with him when he is young with his father and with senior companions may Allah be pleased with them.
2) preoccupation with trivia and fun:
It is not a shame that children or adolescents have fun, this is their natural right, but that this is most of their concern and that their parents do not strain by linking them to some useful tasks and goals.
Some parents even occupy his son with such trivia until he reaches an advanced age. Some parents do so to avoid preoccupation with their children, and have forgotten that this is their greatest task in life.
3) Absence of values and principles in young people and adolescents:
This is because they did not receive and did not grow up, so you see the father and mother noticing their son lying and then not reproach and find him behind the promises and promises and do not deter him hard, but may lie to the father or lie to the mother or the father smokes in front of his children to see what role model will be planted them.
4 - weak meaning of pride in adolescents
It is the duty of parents to cultivate the meanings of power and pride in the hearts of their children and educate them to do so, and build a strong and courageous personality so that they are not affected by the bad acts around them.
But what we see from many young people and adolescents is a boldness to disobedience and creek and weakness in the home of courage and bully.
Perhaps the phenomenon of imitators of the opposite sex is not absent from our society and they are called the third and fourth sex, but have become gatherings and similar associations and God forbid.
It was even said: Oakhthal Mzhoh came his walk! National ask him female or male ?!
Causes of educational backwardness
There is no doubt that the educational process has become a complex process in the time of globalization and openness of cultures and science and the intertwining of roles, but we have identified the most important reasons that contributed to the backwardness of education in our society, according to our vision, and these reasons:
1 - The preoccupation of parents and abandonment of their educational role: This is a reality and unfortunate many parents do not sit with their children, perhaps only once every several days, and even in these quick sessions do not try to instill any value or principle in the hearts of their children, and perhaps the complexities of life and the difficulty of securing A decent life has occupied people more than before but this never absolves them of giving up their responsibilities.
The orphan is not the one who ended his parents who are life and left him humiliated
It is the orphan who received him either abandoned or a busy father
2 - the absence of role models at home: Some parents forbid their son to smoke and their son looks at the pack of cigarettes in his father's pocket !! How can this son quit smoking?
When the son and child hear and see his father or mother lie and insult people, can we ask this son to be honest or to be polite in his words?
And look at one of the princes when he said to the polite who disciplines his children (Let the first thing that you start from the goodness of the sons of reforming yourself, their eyes are held by your eyes, they have good what is well-deserved and what ugly they have received.
3 - Media: whether satellite TV or the Internet or even video games, which carries with it the meanings of violence and forbidden relationships, as well as violent films and humor films and others that publish moral decomposition.
A recent study has shown that a child spends 1023 hours a year in front of television !!
This time is enough to destroy his morals if there is no follow-up to what he sees and receives.
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